Renowned playwright and respected relationship expert Uncle Ebo Whyte has made a thought-provoking statement challenging the conventional wisdom that men are the dominant party in sexual encounters. According to Uncle Ebo, women hold power and control during intimate moments.
In a recent interview on Accra-based 3FM, the speaker urged men to stop bragging about sex, as they are not the winners in intimate encounters. He explained that when a man boasts about “finishing” a woman, he should reconsider, as the true winner in any sexual encounter is the woman. The speaker emphasized that men should stop bragging and recognize that they are not the winners in intimate affairs, but rather, they are giving their energy, reputation, and opportunities.
Uncle Ebo cautioned men to uphold their self-respect and dignity, warning that failure to do so may lead to detrimental repercussions stemming from impulsive and irresponsible actions. He emphasized the importance of self-awareness and prudent decision-making to avoid compromising one’s values and integrity.
“When you understand that there’s the need for you to respect yourself, then you understand that this thing can bring you down. It can make you lose your respect and reputation like nothing else. And so be careful.
“An older friend of mine told me this. When you go to the forest and you find a table laid, walk away because you don’t know why the table is there,” he said.
