Reverend Eastwood Anaba, Founder and President of Eastwood Anaba Ministries, has presented a compelling argument on the importance of men expressing gratitude to their wives after sex. Speaking during a teaching session that has gained significant attention on social media, the respected evangelist highlighted the necessity of mutual satisfaction in marital intimacy. He also discussed common shortcomings in how men address their wives’ sexual needs.
Rev. Anaba responded to the question, “Why should I thank my wife after sex when we both enjoyed it?” by pointing out the imbalance in enjoyment and effort that often exists during sexual encounters in many marriages. He noted, “Many women, and you know what I’m talking about, don’t reach that level of enjoyment. Usually, it is the man who achieves that point most of the time.”
He explained that many married women have never experienced an orgasm due to their husbands’ lack of understanding of sexual fundamentals, including foreplay and the use of lubricants. He lamented that some men pounce on their wives without proper preparation, leaving them physically and emotionally dissatisfied.
“Has your wife protested like that before?” he asked, pointing to signs of sexual satisfaction. “If she hasn’t, or if you’ve never noticed her behaving unusually—like someone who has reached the peak of pleasure—then it indicates she may not have experienced an orgasm. Many women, including your wife, likely haven’t reached that point.” Rev. Anaba also highlighted that some men lack essential knowledge about sexual practices, such as the use of KY jelly and the importance of extended foreplay for promoting natural lubrication.
He stated that men who overlook these factors shouldn’t merely thank their wives but should genuinely “worship” them for enduring the experience. “In your case, you should not be thanking her. You should be worshipping her for inflicting injuries on her,” he remarked. The preacher also highlighted societal norms, stating that men often enjoy sexual relationships more than women and are typically the ones who bear the financial costs of sex. He added, “That is why you should thank her.”
Source: GraphicOnline