There’s a subtle illusion that rarely gets named: the belief in being indispensable. The moment someone gains power, influence, or visibility, society elevates them—celebrating, deferring, and treating them as though the world could not possibly function without their presence. But here’s the truth: relevance is fleeting.
The Mirage of Power
Titles, positions, and accolades can create the illusion of invincibility. When elevated, every word, action, and decision seems magnified—praise flows freely, respect feels automatic, and the applause appears endless. Yet, much of it is a mirage. Roles shift, positions change, and those once deemed indispensable are quietly replaced. The spotlight drifts, leaving behind only echoes of fleeting admiration. Relevance, like the tide, is seasonal—present today, gone tomorrow.
The Fall That Teaches
It doesn’t take a lifetime to grasp this truth. When someone shifts from the top of a hierarchy to an ordinary role, the contrast is stark. Respect that once flowed effortlessly disappears. Opinions once valued are brushed aside. In that moment, the realisation strikes: the world does not revolve around you—you are replaceable. This isn’t meant to discourage; it’s a wake-up call. A reminder that your worth is not defined by a title or position.
Kairos Moments: Seize the Window
In Greek philosophy, there’s a term called Kairos—the opportune, decisive moment. These are the windows of time when choices, actions, and focus carry extraordinary weight. Titles may grant access, but it is what you do within that moment that defines true influence. Too often, people squander Kairos chasing recognition, basking in applause, or assuming relevance is permanent. Those who grasp its nature, however, invest wisely—transforming fleeting attention into lasting impact, and temporary respect into enduring value.
The Paradox of Recognition
The very moment you feel most celebrated is the same moment you should remember: you are replaceable. And that awareness is liberating. It frees you to focus on growth, contribution, and real impact rather than the applause of the crowd. Seasons are fleeting, and opportunities are perishable.
Relevance That Endures
True relevance is like electricity: it flows only with connection. When the connection fades, so does the light. But character, knowledge, relationships, and skill are permanent currents—they illuminate wherever you go. These are the qualities that outlast the applause.
Make Every Season Count
So, if today you feel indispensable, remember: the world moves on. But you don’t have to fade with it. Maximise your Kairos moments. Invest in your skills, your mindset, and your relationships. Let each season, whether short or long, be a testament to the value you create.
Because in the end, real relevance isn’t about being seen—it’s about being impactful.
Source: Abigail Arthur
