Unfaithful Young Man Making Call Gesture In A Cafe.Unfaithful young man in a cafe. He is embracing his girlfriend and making call gesture to another woman behind her back.

A womanizer is someone who has multiple sexual encounters or relationships with more than one woman on a regular basis. While single people can sometimes live this lifestyle without hurting anyone, womanizers may pose as wanting a monogamous relationship but lie to their partner about who they’re seeing on the side.  Sometimes, womanizers will lead women on, allowing them to think that they want something serious or are in love with them. In reality, the womanizer simply wants as many women as possible, whether for sex or just attention.

Some womanizers may engage in polygamy, which is the practice of having more than one husband or wife. Polygamy has a long history. In fact, 85% of human societies have historically allowed men to marry multiple wives. However modern society favours monogamy in both legal and religious practices.

The practice of polyamory, or participating in more than one serious relationship at a time with the consent and knowledge of everyone involved, is becoming more accepted in mainstream culture for both men and women. However, the difference in a womanizer is that he is deceitful or lacks compassion about the feelings of the women he is seeing.

Understanding the realities of dealing with a womaniser is crucial for women navigating such relationships. If you encounter such men on your journey to finding a partner, there are certain facts you need to embrace about them to be able to maintain your peace of mind:

  • You can’t change him

You need to recognize that attempting to change someone is often futile. If you find yourself involved with a womanizer, understand that change is a personal decision, and external efforts may only lead to stress and frustration. If the situation becomes unbearable, choosing to walk away might be the healthiest option.

  • Marriage won’t transform him

Dispelling the myth that marriage can reform a womanizer is essential. Marriage isn’t a magical remedy for ingrained behaviours; instead, it can amplify existing patterns. If your partner exhibits womanizing tendencies before marriage, there’s a high likelihood that this behaviour will persist afterwards. It’s important not to harbour illusions that marriage will miraculously change deeply rooted habits.

  • It’s not your fault

Women often face undue blame when dealing with womanizers. It’s crucial to understand that another person’s actions are beyond your control. Resist the notion that you are somehow responsible for their behaviour. Remember, you are enough just as you are, and if someone can’t appreciate that, it’s not a reflection of your worth.

  • It’s not the devil

Resorting to religious or spiritual interventions to change a womanizer may not yield the desired results. Redirecting energy towards self-improvement and personal growth is a more constructive approach. Recognize that change originates within the individual, and if your partner hasn’t committed to change, external efforts may prove ineffective.

  • All men are not alike

Womanizers may try to convince you that every man shares their tendencies. Reject this generalization. There are men who value and uphold monogamous relationships. Don’t settle for unhappiness due to fear of not finding someone better. Trust that there are individuals who will respect your desire for a committed and faithful partnership.

Empower yourself by acknowledging that change is a personal choice, marriage doesn’t guarantee transformation, blame is unwarranted, spiritual interventions may not work, and not all men exhibit womanizing behaviour. Embracing these truths can empower women to make informed decisions about their relationships and prioritise their well-being.

 

 

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