Counseling psychologist and ADR practitioner, Counselor Perfect, has asserted that marriages without conflict are either stagnant or on the path to decline. Speaking on Joy Prime’s Let’s Talk during a discussion on conflict management among couples, she emphasised that disagreements play a vital role in testing relationships, revealing how partners handle challenges, and ultimately strengthening their bond.
“If you are married and there’s never been any conflict, your marriage is dead.
Conflict is inevitable because we are human. What matters is not the conflict itself, but how you resolve it—that’s what makes you stronger,” she explained. Counsellor Perfect further noted that conflict can be constructive, as it enables couples to connect more deeply and gain a better understanding of each other through the process of resolution.
She emphasised that listening to understand, controlling one’s tone, and being non-judgmental are essential in marital conflict resolution.
She emphasised the importance of showing grace and maintaining a respectful tone when addressing issues in a relationship. According to her, setting aside personal feelings to better understand one’s partner and keeping negative emotions in check allows couples to resolve problems effectively and prevent them from recurring.
Adding his perspective, Counselor and Resident Pastor of the Universal Gospel Center, Reverend Daniel Annan, echoed her sentiments. He stressed that couples should never hesitate to seek support when necessary, especially in situations involving abusive partners. “No one should feel inadequate for seeking help. Simply reach out, and help will come,” he advised.
Source: Hilda Asabea
